人情世故这玩意儿不是每个人都懂得如何去善用。
而且懂人情的人，未必懂世故；
懂世故的人，未必懂人情。
只懂一样， 不懂另外一样，还情有可原，
倘诺两样都摸不清，即可怜无比，无法在社会上立足,
完全没办法了解所谓的“处世之道”。
人情世故也好，处世之道也好，
经验累积来说，都与年龄无关。
世上，有很多人年纪小小，
便已老气横秋地道天论地，上知天文下知地理，几乎样样都懂。
只要他们懂得如何善用上天赐给他们的智慧，
堂堂正正脚踏实地磊落光明地去做人，你会发觉人间有多了个懂事的小孩。
会“做人”不一定就是说只做好人，待人如己就算，而是要懂人情，知世故。
人家送了你个人情，就要懂得去还人情，所谓礼尚往来，滴水之恩，涌泉相报。
当一个人懂得如何以适当的“礼”还人情之时，也并不代表完全懂什么叫“处世”。
很多时候以为不接人家的人情就什么都不用烦。
可是当别人热心衷衷地把人情送到你面前，这岂可不接呢？
退三推四，拒人于千里之外又岂可是君子所为埃？
人情世故处世之道又何止肤浅而言，还讲“义气”二字。
做人没义气就代表不会“做人”，无法在所谓的江湖上行走如侠。
能称得上“侠”之辈，即义气二字用在心头。
朋友有难，就要路见不平，拔刀相助，不能两手擦腰，袖手旁观，这真是大逆不道，
更别说不懂人情世故，简直就是鼠辈小人，天地不容。
很可惜的是，正义难存，邪气满天飞。
如今，世态炎凉道德沦亡之风气生气勃勃，还会有谁会去多管闲事，各扫各自门前雪就算。
论人情，道处世，一个已结婚生子，而育一子一女，
还曾飘洋过海念书的人竟不比一个初出茅庐的黄毛小子懂事，真岂不叫人汗颜！
人可以不精明聪明既老奸巨猾，但是千万不可不会做人。
这样子，做人实在是太失败了。
为人斤斤计较，即不会做人；
为人不近人情，即不会做人；
为人见死不救，即不会做人；
为人以大欺小，即不会做人；
为人见人论人，见鬼道鬼；即不会做人。
所谓孔子曰：“己欲立人而立人，己欲达人而大人”还有“己所不欲，勿施于人”。
别人的时间就不是时间，她自己的时间就是时间；
别人的钱就不是钱，她自己的钱就是钱。
与这种人相处甚旧，真会令人刎颈悬梁跳海自尽，
服毒吐血而死，宁求一死，也不想多活一日眼见如此颜面无耻之辈在妖言惑众，唯恐天下不乱。如此自私自利不近人情的人也只能搬迁到寂寂无名的小地方暂且偷生避世。
不然大城市才容纳不得此人。
人不能成天躲在家里不出门，一定要出来见见世面，了解了解所谓的人情世故。
人情世故不是说你要怎样就怎样，这可是一门学问，
是要人勇于向社会这一扇门踏出第一步而开始慢慢学习的一样人生非常重要的一堂课，
一门异常深奥的学问。
就算不出门，也要多看报纸，多听新闻，好让自己增广见识，
以免成为别人口中的井底之蛙，所谓“秀才不出门，能知天下事”。
在社会上混久了，人也就成熟多了，那就该是时候收心养心，静坐冥想，好好检讨自己。
回想一下，人生道路走了这么远，那么久，到底目的何在，为的是什么？
做人做的那么辛苦，这样就完了吗？
所以还是趁自己年少气壮，血气方刚之时好好把握黄金时分，
在江湖上创出个名堂，轰轰烈烈地把人生好好的活一场。
所谓，雁过尚且留声，人死何不留名？
Sunday, November 30, 2008
Sunday, November 23, 2008
Panic! At the Disco
Awww~~~ My Psych lab report is due tomorrow, it's our LAST lab report. Hmmmm, but I dont feel like doing it because I'm kinda sick of doing it. Thanksgiving break is around the corner and it's making me excited now. Don't feel like doing anything, just wanna sit back and relax.
It feels so good after listening to Panic! At the Disco's latest album called Pretty Odd. Yup, yup... for them as a rock band, the songs they are having in this album is "pretty odd". But I would say it's time to change for them. Such "change" have made them a better singing band. A mixture of rock band song, emo song, country song and acoustics song. I love this album!!!!!
Throwing a line into the sea,
and see if my dream will come true.
Giving out something to the world,
and see if I'm out of my mind.
Have no idea why everyone is acting weird recently...
really wanna find out w them one by one if I have the time.
How I wish I could have more than 24 hours per day.
Hope everyone is doing good, and well-prepared for the beautiful thanksgiving break!
It feels so good after listening to Panic! At the Disco's latest album called Pretty Odd. Yup, yup... for them as a rock band, the songs they are having in this album is "pretty odd". But I would say it's time to change for them. Such "change" have made them a better singing band. A mixture of rock band song, emo song, country song and acoustics song. I love this album!!!!!
Throwing a line into the sea,
and see if my dream will come true.
Giving out something to the world,
and see if I'm out of my mind.
Have no idea why everyone is acting weird recently...
really wanna find out w them one by one if I have the time.
How I wish I could have more than 24 hours per day.
Hope everyone is doing good, and well-prepared for the beautiful thanksgiving break!
Monday, November 17, 2008
~Before my nap~
Just finished my history class, going to take a nap soon. Before that, would love to drink a cup of black bean powder soup... hmmm, yum yum~~ while listening to Stephanie's songs.
Yeah~ Petrol price in Malaysia dropped 15 cents again!
Congrats!!!
Malaysia had enough of inflation!
Yeah~ Petrol price in Malaysia dropped 15 cents again!
Congrats!!!
Malaysia had enough of inflation!
L.O.V.E is troublesome!
If I were Suzan, I think I'll go for Ian instead of Mike. Well, how are you gonna define you love someone but at the same time you love another person a little bit more. You cannot even figure it out by yourself. You might not know who's gonna be the best for you. What the heck is the "a little bit more" suppose to be???
In fact, it's gonna be real hard for Suzan to decide on who she loves exactly ultimately. I like the analogy of the "wedding cake" that how they put Suzan through the devastating circumstances. Hell yeah, would you like to go for an rich & elegant cake or simple but sweat cake? This will probably gonna stun many girls to think about it. Ian is a real gentlemen that Suzan might not be able find another one in her entire life. But sometimes gentlemen do get jealous easily than anybody else. This would be the sucks part. Because gentlemen like them can't really take it when they see their girls flirting around with other guys.
Well, dont get me wrong. Flirting isn't that bad after all. Even married people can flirt around if they don't cross the line. I mean, there are thousand of million of people out there in the world and chances are, you're gonna meet probably million of people throughout your entire life (depends on your networking). What's wrong with just flirt with someone else out there who you think he or she is charming and attractive and HOT! Feelings are some creeping evil stuffs that you can't possibly fully control of it. I'm not talking about sluts or playboy either, those people cross their line all the time. Making new friends and reading their story can be greatly interesting. Everyone in the world has their own GREAT story to hear about. Suzan is real lucky but she insists to have Mike. Mike is hot and handsome but he doesn't has English boy's charming! The charm of a British.
Just like Gabriella. As I said, she's gonna be amazingly perfect if she's going to act more like a grown-up. She should stop being like a child and a "bimbo" even though she is. No one like to be called by that name, neither Eddie. Gabriella is gorgeous, having a evilly sexy body, wealth (cz she is engaged to a mayor), and friendship in Wisteria Lane. This is a lucky girl as well. Why would Mayor Victor Lang can fall for Gabriella just by seeing the way she walked on the street. Anyways, Gabriella is in fact dead-drop gorgeous esp when she is dressed up. No guys could turn their head away if they are on the scene. Unfortunately, Mayor Victor Lang, a politician is not Gabriella's taste. She knows nuts about politics and she doesn't know what is suppose to do and what is not in the public. This made Victor really mad about it. In fact, Gabriella just don't seem to understand the true mask of politics. Things could go really nasty if the politicians wanna hide something from the public. Victor loves Gabriella so much but she just don't understand.
Being in love, getting into a relationship, dating with somebody, having a crush on somebody, getting married, and settling down for a family are really not easy. These are extremely complicated stuffs! From a superficial point of view, all these could bring you a blissful and happily ever after life, but somehow it can also intoxicate your life. headache~~~
Gosh~~~ I'm hungry!
..... late night again, I wanna eat!
In fact, it's gonna be real hard for Suzan to decide on who she loves exactly ultimately. I like the analogy of the "wedding cake" that how they put Suzan through the devastating circumstances. Hell yeah, would you like to go for an rich & elegant cake or simple but sweat cake? This will probably gonna stun many girls to think about it. Ian is a real gentlemen that Suzan might not be able find another one in her entire life. But sometimes gentlemen do get jealous easily than anybody else. This would be the sucks part. Because gentlemen like them can't really take it when they see their girls flirting around with other guys.
Well, dont get me wrong. Flirting isn't that bad after all. Even married people can flirt around if they don't cross the line. I mean, there are thousand of million of people out there in the world and chances are, you're gonna meet probably million of people throughout your entire life (depends on your networking). What's wrong with just flirt with someone else out there who you think he or she is charming and attractive and HOT! Feelings are some creeping evil stuffs that you can't possibly fully control of it. I'm not talking about sluts or playboy either, those people cross their line all the time. Making new friends and reading their story can be greatly interesting. Everyone in the world has their own GREAT story to hear about. Suzan is real lucky but she insists to have Mike. Mike is hot and handsome but he doesn't has English boy's charming! The charm of a British.
Just like Gabriella. As I said, she's gonna be amazingly perfect if she's going to act more like a grown-up. She should stop being like a child and a "bimbo" even though she is. No one like to be called by that name, neither Eddie. Gabriella is gorgeous, having a evilly sexy body, wealth (cz she is engaged to a mayor), and friendship in Wisteria Lane. This is a lucky girl as well. Why would Mayor Victor Lang can fall for Gabriella just by seeing the way she walked on the street. Anyways, Gabriella is in fact dead-drop gorgeous esp when she is dressed up. No guys could turn their head away if they are on the scene. Unfortunately, Mayor Victor Lang, a politician is not Gabriella's taste. She knows nuts about politics and she doesn't know what is suppose to do and what is not in the public. This made Victor really mad about it. In fact, Gabriella just don't seem to understand the true mask of politics. Things could go really nasty if the politicians wanna hide something from the public. Victor loves Gabriella so much but she just don't understand.
Being in love, getting into a relationship, dating with somebody, having a crush on somebody, getting married, and settling down for a family are really not easy. These are extremely complicated stuffs! From a superficial point of view, all these could bring you a blissful and happily ever after life, but somehow it can also intoxicate your life. headache~~~
Gosh~~~ I'm hungry!
..... late night again, I wanna eat!
Thursday, November 13, 2008
Not feeling well
I have lost my voice when I woke up this morning! Having sore throat is not funny even though I have used to it. >.<"""
I need Strepsils~~~~~~
I need Strepsils~~~~~~
Wednesday, November 12, 2008
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