南下一游

眼看时钟就快要三点了，
回顾一望，结果东西只收拾了一半，
还在电脑前不断地观游facebook这个令人又爱又恨的一个网站。
每次进入了之后就让自己无法自拔不能抽身。

可怜的我连午餐都没吃，只吃了一两块饼干，不求超饱，只要不饿就行了。
说实在的，其实是自己懒散的无可救药，所以才没下去吃午餐。
结果没想到，一个两个竟然不约而同地迎面而来说：“今天的午餐超级丰富，你的亏可吃多了。”
他妈的！朋友就是这样子那来气的吗？好歹也问候一下我为何没下去嘛。
真是的，现在的人也越来越不像话了。

首先，大家都把行李放进车子后面。大家心想，“咦，Uncle跟Chuk到底人去了哪啊？两个大男人还要我们站在饱受冷风的情况下等他们吗？再等下去，三字经可要背熟了。
最后，他们俩既优哉又游哉地漫步而来。看见真令人“无语”。
一路向南，车子里播放着香港Twins的劲歌金曲，然后再来Michael Buble，再来Phantom of The Opera，听了真叫人热血沸腾，非张开喉咙高歌一曲不可。谁知道实情只有前面那两位先生小姐自唱自爽，完全抛下后面那两位于不顾。听起来有点过分，可是当人热血来潮的时候就顾不了那么多了，唯有难得自私一会儿吧，就只是那么一会儿就好了，不能过火且过态。

兜来兜去，终于成功的找到我们要找的酒店。
大家的心都在慌因为GPS又没有，我们又是第一次下来，再加上google map又不清不楚的。
真的把大家士气都给打散了！
回去房间后，说什么大学生嘛？
看见酒店的那两张双人床还不是一样像小孩子那样蹦蹦跳跳地在床上翻筋斗。
真是不像话！
这一次大家南下的目的都非常的清楚且明显。
我们是为了thanksgiving 有大减价才下来像疯子一般的狂扫物品的，
只因oklahoma都没有什么能看能逛能选能买的购物商场，说起真叫人一把眼泪。
回顾以往，咱们都有所谓连续48个小时没关门的购物商场，因为每逢过年过节大家都需要额外多余的时间来办年货。其实以前都没有这种玩意儿，只是现代的商业化社会把现代人给宠坏了。
大家的时间都不懂花到那里去了？上网，电视，夜店还是酒吧？算啦！管不了那么多！
可是，我千万没想到就为了个感恩节，这里的商店都在晚上12点才开门到另外一天早上的10点钟。听了过后，心里痛快不已，真是爽到想一飞冲天。
在外国，我就看不过眼也摸不着头脑为什么这里的百货公司只开门到傍晚的5或6点钟。生意不都是晚上才人山人海，你推我挤地在插队吗？怎么5，6 点钟大家就回去睡觉了呢？这样的生活环境肯定八九成不是被腻死就是被夜深人静之时的虫叫声给催眠死的。哈哈！
但是，我相信总有一天他们是会醒的。终于晚上找点东西玩了！

大家兴高采烈地开车到商场，结果车水马龙大排长龙， 没想到美国人也有爱逛街的一面。
我不晓得我们到底花了多少时间找位子放车子，
只见每间商店都挤满了人群，而且大家都好像在排队等商店开门咯，太夸张了！
结果，不管那间是多么昂贵豪华的品牌商店，里头都已成了街上的夜市场。
衣服衣架犹如秋天树叶花朵落满地，一点也不比夜市场逊色。
就连排队付钱的队伍都比当年中国清朝时代发生荒灾国家决定开仓派米的队伍还要长。
而且现在都不是在领米而是在把自个儿的钱给送出去，天啊！

不知不觉，不知不觉...
哇噻！8点多了？不是吧？是不是手表坏掉了啦？
小女生平热爱逛街，可是20年以来都没试过逛街逛了整整8个小时，这太扯了!
说出去只会招惹别人的一句，“变态”！而且到极点的那种！
8个小时里面，我们不只单单逛街购物那么简单，发生的事情可多了。
因为某某事情，某某人都在生某某人的气，单单打打，脸带不爽地踏着沉重的脚步逛街。
有的开心，有的不知情，有的略懂一些，有的疯掉了......
就这样，8个小时便过去了，就因为这8个小时的过去，
大家都把内心一切不高兴的事都忘得一干二净，把烦恼都抛开了。
相信我们这一班人的友谊是坚韧巩固的，
不是随便打打风就能吹走的。

为人处世之道

人情世故这玩意儿不是每个人都懂得如何去善用。
而且懂人情的人，未必懂世故；
懂世故的人，未必懂人情。
只懂一样， 不懂另外一样，还情有可原，
倘诺两样都摸不清，即可怜无比，无法在社会上立足,
完全没办法了解所谓的“处世之道”。

人情世故也好，处世之道也好，
经验累积来说，都与年龄无关。
世上，有很多人年纪小小，
便已老气横秋地道天论地，上知天文下知地理，几乎样样都懂。
只要他们懂得如何善用上天赐给他们的智慧，
堂堂正正脚踏实地磊落光明地去做人，你会发觉人间有多了个懂事的小孩。
会“做人”不一定就是说只做好人，待人如己就算，而是要懂人情，知世故。
人家送了你个人情，就要懂得去还人情，所谓礼尚往来，滴水之恩，涌泉相报。
当一个人懂得如何以适当的“礼”还人情之时，也并不代表完全懂什么叫“处世”。
很多时候以为不接人家的人情就什么都不用烦。
可是当别人热心衷衷地把人情送到你面前，这岂可不接呢？
退三推四，拒人于千里之外又岂可是君子所为埃？
人情世故处世之道又何止肤浅而言，还讲“义气”二字。
做人没义气就代表不会“做人”，无法在所谓的江湖上行走如侠。
能称得上“侠”之辈，即义气二字用在心头。
朋友有难，就要路见不平，拔刀相助，不能两手擦腰，袖手旁观，这真是大逆不道，
更别说不懂人情世故，简直就是鼠辈小人，天地不容。

很可惜的是，正义难存，邪气满天飞。
如今，世态炎凉道德沦亡之风气生气勃勃，还会有谁会去多管闲事，各扫各自门前雪就算。
论人情，道处世，一个已结婚生子，而育一子一女，
还曾飘洋过海念书的人竟不比一个初出茅庐的黄毛小子懂事，真岂不叫人汗颜！
人可以不精明聪明既老奸巨猾，但是千万不可不会做人。
这样子，做人实在是太失败了。

为人斤斤计较，即不会做人；
为人不近人情，即不会做人；
为人见死不救，即不会做人；
为人以大欺小，即不会做人；
为人见人论人，见鬼道鬼；即不会做人。

所谓孔子曰：“己欲立人而立人，己欲达人而大人”还有“己所不欲，勿施于人”。
别人的时间就不是时间，她自己的时间就是时间；
别人的钱就不是钱，她自己的钱就是钱。
与这种人相处甚旧，真会令人刎颈悬梁跳海自尽，
服毒吐血而死，宁求一死，也不想多活一日眼见如此颜面无耻之辈在妖言惑众，唯恐天下不乱。如此自私自利不近人情的人也只能搬迁到寂寂无名的小地方暂且偷生避世。
不然大城市才容纳不得此人。

人不能成天躲在家里不出门，一定要出来见见世面，了解了解所谓的人情世故。
人情世故不是说你要怎样就怎样，这可是一门学问，
是要人勇于向社会这一扇门踏出第一步而开始慢慢学习的一样人生非常重要的一堂课，
一门异常深奥的学问。
就算不出门，也要多看报纸，多听新闻，好让自己增广见识，
以免成为别人口中的井底之蛙，所谓“秀才不出门，能知天下事”。
在社会上混久了，人也就成熟多了，那就该是时候收心养心，静坐冥想，好好检讨自己。
回想一下，人生道路走了这么远，那么久，到底目的何在，为的是什么？
做人做的那么辛苦，这样就完了吗？
所以还是趁自己年少气壮，血气方刚之时好好把握黄金时分，
在江湖上创出个名堂，轰轰烈烈地把人生好好的活一场。

所谓，雁过尚且留声，人死何不留名？

Panic! At the Disco

Awww~~~ My Psych lab report is due tomorrow, it's our LAST lab report. Hmmmm, but I dont feel like doing it because I'm kinda sick of doing it. Thanksgiving break is around the corner and it's making me excited now. Don't feel like doing anything, just wanna sit back and relax.

It feels so good after listening to Panic! At the Disco's latest album called Pretty Odd. Yup, yup... for them as a rock band, the songs they are having in this album is "pretty odd". But I would say it's time to change for them. Such "change" have made them a better singing band. A mixture of rock band song, emo song, country song and acoustics song. I love this album!!!!!

Throwing a line into the sea,
and see if my dream will come true.
Giving out something to the world,
and see if I'm out of my mind.

Have no idea why everyone is acting weird recently...
really wanna find out w them one by one if I have the time.
How I wish I could have more than 24 hours per day.

Hope everyone is doing good, and well-prepared for the beautiful thanksgiving break!

~Before my nap~

Just finished my history class, going to take a nap soon. Before that, would love to drink a cup of black bean powder soup... hmmm, yum yum~~ while listening to Stephanie's songs.

Yeah~ Petrol price in Malaysia dropped 15 cents again!
Congrats!!!

Malaysia had enough of inflation!

L.O.V.E is troublesome!

If I were Suzan, I think I'll go for Ian instead of Mike. Well, how are you gonna define you love someone but at the same time you love another person a little bit more. You cannot even figure it out by yourself. You might not know who's gonna be the best for you. What the heck is the "a little bit more" suppose to be???

In fact, it's gonna be real hard for Suzan to decide on who she loves exactly ultimately. I like the analogy of the "wedding cake" that how they put Suzan through the devastating circumstances. Hell yeah, would you like to go for an rich & elegant cake or simple but sweat cake? This will probably gonna stun many girls to think about it. Ian is a real gentlemen that Suzan might not be able find another one in her entire life. But sometimes gentlemen do get jealous easily than anybody else. This would be the sucks part. Because gentlemen like them can't really take it when they see their girls flirting around with other guys.

Well, dont get me wrong. Flirting isn't that bad after all. Even married people can flirt around if they don't cross the line. I mean, there are thousand of million of people out there in the world and chances are, you're gonna meet probably million of people throughout your entire life (depends on your networking). What's wrong with just flirt with someone else out there who you think he or she is charming and attractive and HOT! Feelings are some creeping evil stuffs that you can't possibly fully control of it. I'm not talking about sluts or playboy either, those people cross their line all the time. Making new friends and reading their story can be greatly interesting. Everyone in the world has their own GREAT story to hear about. Suzan is real lucky but she insists to have Mike. Mike is hot and handsome but he doesn't has English boy's charming! The charm of a British.

Just like Gabriella. As I said, she's gonna be amazingly perfect if she's going to act more like a grown-up. She should stop being like a child and a "bimbo" even though she is. No one like to be called by that name, neither Eddie. Gabriella is gorgeous, having a evilly sexy body, wealth (cz she is engaged to a mayor), and friendship in Wisteria Lane. This is a lucky girl as well. Why would Mayor Victor Lang can fall for Gabriella just by seeing the way she walked on the street. Anyways, Gabriella is in fact dead-drop gorgeous esp when she is dressed up. No guys could turn their head away if they are on the scene. Unfortunately, Mayor Victor Lang, a politician is not Gabriella's taste. She knows nuts about politics and she doesn't know what is suppose to do and what is not in the public. This made Victor really mad about it. In fact, Gabriella just don't seem to understand the true mask of politics. Things could go really nasty if the politicians wanna hide something from the public. Victor loves Gabriella so much but she just don't understand.

Being in love, getting into a relationship, dating with somebody, having a crush on somebody, getting married, and settling down for a family are really not easy. These are extremely complicated stuffs! From a superficial point of view, all these could bring you a blissful and happily ever after life, but somehow it can also intoxicate your life. headache~~~

Gosh~~~ I'm hungry!
..... late night again, I wanna eat!

Not feeling well

I have lost my voice when I woke up this morning! Having sore throat is not funny even though I have used to it. >.<"""

I need Strepsils~~~~~~

闲聊之谈

偶尔耍耍酷也是应该的,
这会让生活不会那么枯燥乏味.

这一会儿凶一点,
给我来杯安溪铁观音.

啊~~~~ 果然是"味惊四座",超赞!!!